Monday, August 18, 2014

THERE IS A DRESSING THAT 'SEAMS' RIGHT...



The Poison in the Fashion Industry...and its Antidote
It starts with a simple question. Who are you wearing? This I believe can fall under the FAQ (frequently asked questions) at any major fashion event, award ceremony or red carpet across the US, France, China, Milan, London and any other destination that is big on fashion.

More often than not, the outfit in question is a long evening gown with a thigh high slit, open back and revealing cleavage. In other words, the wearer is more undressed than they are dressed, portraying fashion as more about undressing than dressing.  And when they mention ‘whom they are wearing’ the particular dress is duplicated and sold around the world as the one so and so wore at the Oscars or Grammy’s. When it seems right the fashion industry thrives.

And so, the poison of indecent dressing spills from the red carpet to hundreds of closets around the world. Thus, the red carpet becomes the floor that principalities use to tell the rest of the world what to wear.

The fashion industry is a sensual industry. It thrives on people’s feelings and need to look and feel a certain way. It prospers because people will always come back for more; fashion seems to create an insatiable quest that can never be fulfilled. Fashion has come to symbolize vanity, materialism and extravagance.

Fashion is intentional. Nothing is by chance about any given design. Principalities that influence the world of fashion have studied people with the intention of influencing them. How do you explain an era of miniskirts, another of leggings, another of low cleavage and yet another or high slits? How do you explain that when these trends hit the street, you meet hundreds of people wearing the same exact outfit, whether it works with their body or not? Is the fashion industry not trying to make slaves of people who follow trends without reasoning with it? Does it not want to create a people who will put on whatever it calls up-to-the-minute, cool, and modern without debating its intention?

If I designed an outfit today, my intention would be to express God’s creativity which is beautiful but also respectful. When the principalities influence a design, what is their intention? 

Fashion lies.  It plays with the very words that many people crave to be described with. When words such as the’ image of perfection, alluring, sexy, confident, she knows herself’ describe celebrities that are indecently dressed, many people looking for approval swallow the pill. They figure that if they can dress that way, then they will come off as confident or as images of perfection…and more.

Many people look to fashion to feel complete, to build their low self esteem or to cover up their real struggles. The industry takes advantage of hurting broken hearts by lying to them that this ‘hourte courtre, avante garde, trendy, hot, cool, modern, up-to-the-minute, winter, fall, summer and spring collection’ will complete them. It never does. It further empties their soul and their pockets too.

Fashion giants use the influence and power that celebrities have over people by dressing them in whatever they want to sell. You may look at an outfit and wonder what the designer was thinking when he produced it. But since they are big names who influence the trends and determine what is fashion-forward, whatever they produce is endorsed. Many celebrities and models around the world do not mind flaunting their bodies to the public and so gladly accept to model for the fashion houses. Here, image is exalted at the expense of character.

As the world applause and celebrates the fashion houses and its models, the weapon that was fashioned against people’s minds prospers skyrocketing all kinds of sexual and moral decadence. Identities are lost as young people seek to look like their ‘idols’, fulfilling the scripture in Proverbs 16:25 There is a way which seems right to a man, but in the end it leads to death. When the media splash and praise these clothes, it seems right to them, but in the end, it ends up breaking lives, homes and societies.

That is the poison within the fashion industry.

Fashion in itself is not an evil thing. It is indeed an expression of God’s multidimensional creativity.  When God wanted garments made for his priests in ancient Israel, he gave the artists of the day a spirit of wisdom to make outfits for beauty and for glory. (Ex 28:2). Indeed, Exodus 28 gives a painstaking description of the design, fabric and bling that were to be used on Aaron’s priestly garment.

Apart from been ministered to by priests that looked good, he also wanted to communicate the beauty, excellence, holiness and purity on the calling of a priest which was embodied by Christ in the days to come. In Proverbs 31woman went for both beauty and fine quality when it came to clothing, and her manner brought praise to God and her family. But as it is with everything beautiful that God created, the enemy has turned this one around for his own destructive purposes.

Slogans such as ‘dress to kill’, ‘dress to impress’ and ‘beautiful to death’ are self-fulfilling prophecies as they literally kill the moral fiber in society. When people fail to dress responsibly, many minds are corrupted, both young and old.

If fashion began with the creator, then we Christians should reclaim it. As it is with marriage and business and every other institution that God created, we should engage the fashion industry in an endeavor to produce clothing for beauty and glory, clothing that perfectly fulfills its purpose. The many Christians gifted in fashion design ought to tap into the mind of Christ and bring out the most beautiful design ideas the world has ever seen.  Designs that communicate the spirit of excellence and purity while fulfilling the purposes of dressing.

At the same time, we should mind how we dress today. Decent clothing is readily available. People around us should never have to feel embarrassed when they look at us. The images that we put in their minds are powerful and they reproduce after their kind. We therefore have a responsibility to dress decently so as to protect their minds. If we saw and treated people around us as brothers and sisters, mothers and fathers, then we can accord them the same respect and boundary (1Tim 5)

The secular world cannot promise to dress well, secular media cannot promise not to show offensive images. But we can. We can dress smart, fashionably but modestly. All we need is a strong godly mind that is able to walk away from indecent trends, a mind that refuses to conform to the dressing of the world just because something is in fashion. Let’s not look up to the world to tell us what is in and what is out in the fashion world, instead, let us judge what is trending based on its excellent design and spirit of purity. One thing I know for sure is that fashion will always come and go but decent dressing will never go out of fashion!

Sunday, March 23, 2014

Self Denial - The Antidote against Selfishness



  
More Alive in Christ when Dead to Self


The monster called self-centeredness first showed up in Heaven, the most unlikely location. This was when a multi-gifted Angel named Lucifer suddenly realized that he too could be worshiped. After all, he was most beautiful and had the ability to make awesome music without even trying. Why not get the other Angels like Gabriel the messenger and Michael the warrior, who were just normal looking and sounding to bow down to him, he probably mused.
For you have said in your heart: 'I will ascend into heaven, I will exalt my throne above the stars of God; I will also sit on the mount of the congregation On the farthest sides of the north; I will ascend above the heights of the clouds, I will be like the Most High’. (Isa 14:13-14)
As Heaven would not have it, Lucifer ate his own words on his way down together with those that had bought into his selfish idea. That was the birth of self-centeredness, as we know it today. Clearly, the devil had a problem letting someone else lead. He wanted to be the one on top. He had what is commonly known as the ‘I’ problem.

Notice the number of times he used the word ‘I’ in the verses above - five times! And he does not give up. He had to spread this sickness so he went on a nature walk at the Garden of Eden. Here the devil cunningly convinces Eve to sin against God, to seek their own and be free of God. One of the results of eating the forbidden fruit was that they would be like gods, knowing good and evil and probably be worshiped. From the verse in Isaiah, we know who wanted to be like God;’ I will be like the Most High’ Satan had said and since he did not get the opportunity, he was still trying to get man to overthrow God by being like God.

Thus, when Jesus came to redeem a lost world, the mission profile was to slay down this particular monster, the self nature. This he did with accurate precision and excellence. You see, Jesus had studied this monster for thousands of years. He knew how, when and who it attacked. He knew the way it looked, talked and walked. He knew its ammo and camouflage, its hideouts and sniper positions. So, like the army commander he is, he prepared to take it down. And when the epic battle was staged, it took many by surprise, the devil and his camp included for it was a far cry from the military prowess Kings had shown in the past. He fought it and won by dying on the cross and descending to hell.

The Holy Trinity in their manifold wisdom knew that to triumph over this particular enemy, they needed to give it what it hated most – selflessness. This was the only antidote that would deal a fatal blow on the monster self. Jesus climbed on a cross and died, he lay down his life that we could have life; he denied himself so that we could have all we needed, he suffered so that we could be healed – he did everything that was contrary to the self nature and by doing so subdued it.

Ironically, Satan demanded worship, Jesus laid down his life, he demanded to ascend into heaven, and Jesus descended into hell. (Isa 14:13-14) In essence, Jesus did the opposite of what Satan had done and so triumphed over him.
This grand shocker is recoded in Colossians 2:15.
Having disarmed principalities and powers, He made a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them in it.
And this is the example that our Lord Jesus set for all who wish to follow him.  He taught that it is possible to put self under subjection by denying it the power it so craves. Clearly, the battle of the flesh is only won at death and that is what he calls us to. Like Jesus, we are to let the self nature die, not once but daily. (Luke 9:23)

Throughout his ministry here on earth, Jesus was relentless on the subject of self denial. The man in Mathew 19:22 wanted to follow Jesus but could not when Jesus told him to sell his possessions and follow him. Did Jesus really expect a rich man adorned in gold, living in a luxurious mansion with hot running water and servants at his  beck and call to leave all that and follow him? How was he going to adapt to sleeping wherever night found him, literally go fishing for a meal, transverse villages stepping on cow and camel droppings all without his cheque book? Indeed, over his dead body! But Jesus did more than that. He left streets of gold in exchange for dry and dusty paths, he put his God-like form aside and wore human skin made of mud, he left comforts unimaginable, such that have no earthly comparison so that he could save the world.

But that is exactly where Jesus wants us, where nothing is too precious to lose, where no position is too high to relinquish, where no one is too close to stand in the way. This is the place of victory.

As we continue in the battle against self, we can get deliberate. Whenever we feel a need to be ‘worshiped’ for our amazing gifts, positions, beauty or wealth, let us develop an instinct to do just the opposite, like Jesus did. Let us subdue the monster within by doing unto others as we would like them to do unto us. Let us;

Serve those that we feel and know should serve us

Compliment those that we feel should compliment us

Cheer those that we feel should cheer us

Give attention to those we think should give us

Acknowledge those that we feel should acknowledge us