Monday, August 18, 2014

THERE IS A DRESSING THAT 'SEAMS' RIGHT...



The Poison in the Fashion Industry...and its Antidote
It starts with a simple question. Who are you wearing? This I believe can fall under the FAQ (frequently asked questions) at any major fashion event, award ceremony or red carpet across the US, France, China, Milan, London and any other destination that is big on fashion.

More often than not, the outfit in question is a long evening gown with a thigh high slit, open back and revealing cleavage. In other words, the wearer is more undressed than they are dressed, portraying fashion as more about undressing than dressing.  And when they mention ‘whom they are wearing’ the particular dress is duplicated and sold around the world as the one so and so wore at the Oscars or Grammy’s. When it seems right the fashion industry thrives.

And so, the poison of indecent dressing spills from the red carpet to hundreds of closets around the world. Thus, the red carpet becomes the floor that principalities use to tell the rest of the world what to wear.

The fashion industry is a sensual industry. It thrives on people’s feelings and need to look and feel a certain way. It prospers because people will always come back for more; fashion seems to create an insatiable quest that can never be fulfilled. Fashion has come to symbolize vanity, materialism and extravagance.

Fashion is intentional. Nothing is by chance about any given design. Principalities that influence the world of fashion have studied people with the intention of influencing them. How do you explain an era of miniskirts, another of leggings, another of low cleavage and yet another or high slits? How do you explain that when these trends hit the street, you meet hundreds of people wearing the same exact outfit, whether it works with their body or not? Is the fashion industry not trying to make slaves of people who follow trends without reasoning with it? Does it not want to create a people who will put on whatever it calls up-to-the-minute, cool, and modern without debating its intention?

If I designed an outfit today, my intention would be to express God’s creativity which is beautiful but also respectful. When the principalities influence a design, what is their intention? 

Fashion lies.  It plays with the very words that many people crave to be described with. When words such as the’ image of perfection, alluring, sexy, confident, she knows herself’ describe celebrities that are indecently dressed, many people looking for approval swallow the pill. They figure that if they can dress that way, then they will come off as confident or as images of perfection…and more.

Many people look to fashion to feel complete, to build their low self esteem or to cover up their real struggles. The industry takes advantage of hurting broken hearts by lying to them that this ‘hourte courtre, avante garde, trendy, hot, cool, modern, up-to-the-minute, winter, fall, summer and spring collection’ will complete them. It never does. It further empties their soul and their pockets too.

Fashion giants use the influence and power that celebrities have over people by dressing them in whatever they want to sell. You may look at an outfit and wonder what the designer was thinking when he produced it. But since they are big names who influence the trends and determine what is fashion-forward, whatever they produce is endorsed. Many celebrities and models around the world do not mind flaunting their bodies to the public and so gladly accept to model for the fashion houses. Here, image is exalted at the expense of character.

As the world applause and celebrates the fashion houses and its models, the weapon that was fashioned against people’s minds prospers skyrocketing all kinds of sexual and moral decadence. Identities are lost as young people seek to look like their ‘idols’, fulfilling the scripture in Proverbs 16:25 There is a way which seems right to a man, but in the end it leads to death. When the media splash and praise these clothes, it seems right to them, but in the end, it ends up breaking lives, homes and societies.

That is the poison within the fashion industry.

Fashion in itself is not an evil thing. It is indeed an expression of God’s multidimensional creativity.  When God wanted garments made for his priests in ancient Israel, he gave the artists of the day a spirit of wisdom to make outfits for beauty and for glory. (Ex 28:2). Indeed, Exodus 28 gives a painstaking description of the design, fabric and bling that were to be used on Aaron’s priestly garment.

Apart from been ministered to by priests that looked good, he also wanted to communicate the beauty, excellence, holiness and purity on the calling of a priest which was embodied by Christ in the days to come. In Proverbs 31woman went for both beauty and fine quality when it came to clothing, and her manner brought praise to God and her family. But as it is with everything beautiful that God created, the enemy has turned this one around for his own destructive purposes.

Slogans such as ‘dress to kill’, ‘dress to impress’ and ‘beautiful to death’ are self-fulfilling prophecies as they literally kill the moral fiber in society. When people fail to dress responsibly, many minds are corrupted, both young and old.

If fashion began with the creator, then we Christians should reclaim it. As it is with marriage and business and every other institution that God created, we should engage the fashion industry in an endeavor to produce clothing for beauty and glory, clothing that perfectly fulfills its purpose. The many Christians gifted in fashion design ought to tap into the mind of Christ and bring out the most beautiful design ideas the world has ever seen.  Designs that communicate the spirit of excellence and purity while fulfilling the purposes of dressing.

At the same time, we should mind how we dress today. Decent clothing is readily available. People around us should never have to feel embarrassed when they look at us. The images that we put in their minds are powerful and they reproduce after their kind. We therefore have a responsibility to dress decently so as to protect their minds. If we saw and treated people around us as brothers and sisters, mothers and fathers, then we can accord them the same respect and boundary (1Tim 5)

The secular world cannot promise to dress well, secular media cannot promise not to show offensive images. But we can. We can dress smart, fashionably but modestly. All we need is a strong godly mind that is able to walk away from indecent trends, a mind that refuses to conform to the dressing of the world just because something is in fashion. Let’s not look up to the world to tell us what is in and what is out in the fashion world, instead, let us judge what is trending based on its excellent design and spirit of purity. One thing I know for sure is that fashion will always come and go but decent dressing will never go out of fashion!